Choosing the Perfect Location: The Best Place to Say “I Do”

Imagine exchanging vows to the sound of waves gently breaking, as daylight softly dims into the delicate hues of sunset. It’s a dream for many—and for some, soon to become reality. Thanks to a temporary permit secured by the Lazio Region at the request of Rome’s City Hall, couples can now hold beach weddings and civil unions along Ostia’s coastline. If you’re seeking the ideal setting for your big day, this could be it. After all, finding the right venue—one that aligns with countless moving parts—isn’t always straightforward.

Most weddings in Italy take place between March and October, with spring and summer being peak season. May is famously known as “bridal month,” but don’t feel bound by convention. Once you’ve covered the basics, pick a date that holds personal significance for you—don’t let outside factors dictate the moment you’ll cherish forever.

With your date set, it’s time to get practical. Before you start scouting venues, establish your budget. Knowing your spending cap will naturally narrow your options. Grab a map and plot potential locations—it’ll make your search feel less like a treasure hunt. For guest convenience, aim for venues within an hour’s drive of the church or town hall (thirty minutes is ideal).

Where to look? If hiring a wedding planner isn’t in the cards, the internet is your best ally. You’ll find everything from restaurants and elegant villas to converted farmhouses and countryside retreats. A simple list of possibilities—enough to check essential details like guest capacity—will guide you as you confirm availability for your banquet or cocktail reception.

Think about who’s coming to celebrate with you. If your guest list includes older relatives, choose a location that’s easy to reach and offers a calm, serene atmosphere. For a younger, more energetic crowd, feel free to dream big and surprise them. Always check for nearby accommodations—or even reserve a block of rooms yourself—for out-of-town guests. And don’t forget the little ones: a dedicated kids’ area will keep them entertained and the adults relaxed.

Once you’ve whittled your list down to two, three—no more than five—options, hit the road and see them in person. This is your chance to get on-the-spot info about pricing and availability, and—if you’re touring historic villas or castles—to ask about preferred caterers.

One of the most enjoyable steps in wedding planning is the tasting dinner for two. Often complimentary or available for a small fee, it lets you sample and savor potential menu items. Tip: jot down your impressions but give yourself only a few days to decide—top venues fill up fast.

Couples get creative: some propose mid-skydive, others on steam trains or inside distillery cellars. The 2019 trend? Saying “I do” in the woods. The so-called “rustic chic” style—borrowed from an American craze—features an al fresco banquet and an intimate guest list. Looking for another twist? Try a boat wedding for a hint of romantic adventure. If you lean intellectual and unconventional, a museum ceremony might suit you perfectly. And if a breathtaking view is your must-have, celebrate on the terrace of a centuries-old palazzo or historic hotel—currently the most popular choice among couples. Whatever you choose, make it yours, and you’ll create memories to last a lifetime.