Me, You… and Our Friends: A Group Honeymoon

A sure sign that times aren’t just changing—they’re speeding up—is the latest wedding trend of taking your closest friends on your honeymoon. That’s right—not just the two of you chasing a fleeting intimacy soon to be lost in everyday routines. Today, everyone travels together for a honeymoon that celebrates love, yes, but friendship too—a nearly perfect alchemy.

It’s called the ‘Buddy Moon,’ a trend that actually began in 2015 when Jennifer Aniston and Justin Theroux, fresh from their wedding, escaped to Bora Bora with their dearest confidants. Since then, agencies have rolled out countless packages—blending romantic moments with rollicking fun for a getaway where nothing is missing.

Which ground rules will preserve the essence of your post-ceremony trip? First, make a guest list. Limit it to people who truly know you—those who’ve shared your milestones or will understand this kind of vacation. Second, be sure to carve out dedicated couple time. The respect you show yourselves will set the schedule and guide everyone else’s participation.

Under the newlyweds’ direction, selected guests handle the logistics. Once the destination is chosen, most of the work is done. Couples often pick hybrid spots where relaxation and entertainment share the spotlight; an adventure-focused trip can be another option. Either way, a detailed itinerary is essential. An all-inclusive package, for example, can streamline bookings and keep costs down.

For budgeting, set a per-person spending cap and create a shared fund for common expenses so everyone contributes their fair share. Etiquette demands it. As for departure dates—shoot for as soon as possible. True, it’s easier for two to agree—but with patience and willingness to compromise, a group can, too.

Etiquette also advises on handling those close friends who stay home. Act as if nothing special is happening. Don’t make a big deal of your decision—keep it low-key. Or share the story afterward with casual nonchalance to avoid discomfort for anyone left out.

Finally, how do you invite your chosen circle to this expanded celebration? Why not slip the request into your wedding invitations? Framed just right, it becomes an offer almost impossible to refuse.