The Wedding Night

Stormy, romantic, intense… at least that’s what our imagination demands. But is it really that way? Given the stress of the preparations, the day’s emotions, and the exhaustion from tackling all the wedding bureaucracy, the first night after saying “I do” can feel more like a mirage. Traditions once deemed indispensable have evolved, too. Today the irrevocable step into married life often feels like a mere formality. Expectations and surprises have shrunk, and with them the weight of responsibility on both spouses. Is everything already scripted?

Once upon a time, a bloodstained sheet served as undeniable proof of a bride’s virtue. Hung from the balcony or outside the family home the morning after, it left no room for doubt. Society’s rules insisted the bride arrive “untouched” at the altar. Cohabitation was unthinkable, and immaculate linens weren’t just a sign of purity—they were a safeguard against social disgrace for bride and groom alike.

Excitement, sentiment, nervous anticipation, tenderness… the list goes on for what you feel in the days before you become a couple. By the end of the ceremony, fatigue is all but guaranteed. Once alone in your room, it may feel more natural to shed the endless layers of finery and simply say good night rather than imagine a passionate evening. Don’t worry—sometimes a little intimacy is all you need. If the only thing you do is lay your heads on the pillow, do it together, wrapped in each other’s arms. Learn the importance of touch before sleep. Hold hands, for instance, and remember that your partner is probably just as tired as you are. Draw strength from each other and savor the simple, tender gestures that bring you closer.

How many times during this unforgettable occasion will you raise a glass and shout “Cheers!” to guests? Yet alcohol can be deceptive. It brings euphoria, makes us feel on top of the world—and then suddenly leaves us empty. A thief of dreams, desires, hopes… If you’ve danced and sang well into the night, the only embrace you might crave—no shame in it—is Morpheus’s. But if you still have energy to talk about the day’s funny moments, the tender ones that brought tears to your eyes, this too is a powerful way to deepen your bond, reminding you both that this is just the beginning: the prologue of a story yet to be written.

Social media is now part of our rituals. Why not use it to your benefit? Just hours after the wedding, revisit the best moments—the candid expressions, the quiet instances of reflection. Every feeling, even the most hidden, will surface in the photos your friends and family share. Watch them together and gift yourselves the first smile of your married life. You’ll see: the night will remain unforgettable.

It’s not only women who are curious. Many newlyweds can’t wait to unwrap their presents once the ceremony ends. Share your excitement with your partner and make them an integral part of what’s in your heart

Many couples choose to depart the very night of the wedding or early the next morning. If you do, know that your time will likely be spent on final luggage checks, passport and document reviews, and one last run-through of what you’ll need on the road. And then, before you know it, you’re off.

Remember: little miracles are the willing heirs of intention. When inspiration is alive, it’s not uncommon for them to happen…